I'm sorry for your loss. I was looking through my grandmothers (Rebecca Linzy, passed away 10/24/96) obituary and she listed her siblings one of which was your mother's husband (Buster Bridgeford), Allen Bridgeford, James, Bridgeford, & Fannie Flowers (Hayti, MO). I googled James Bridgeford and found out he passed away on 12/6/2006 and he listed his sister Fannie (my grandmothers sister) and Allen as his siblings. It appears that we are related and I am elated that i was able to find some relatives of ours since it's been difficult to connect the dots past my grandparents. Again my condolences for your loss.